basically my boyfiend got me pregnant and now his pissed off and it was his idea to have unprotected sex. now im scared he is gonna leave me and im worried about what to do as the best option. i am 1% against abortion and now stuck in the hardest position. any suggestions?
(p.s im 16)
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If you are against abortion, then either keep the baby or give it up. Talk to him, if he denies that it’s his baby and leaves then you have to make the decisions.
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All you need to.worry about right now is what’s best for you and your baby. Don’t worry about him. If you decide to keep the baby then hopefully he will change and be there for u. Your best option is probably adoption. I’m.sure you don’t want to miss out on the rest of your childhood and maybe miss out on college and a career and maybe later on finding the perfect man for u to start a family with. I was adopted and I am.extremely grateful for that because otherwise I would have grown up in a trailer park with a drug addict father. You should make an appointment with a pregnancy counselor and learn more about your options.
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there are hundreds of couples who can’t have children for medical reasons.
It’ll be the hardest thing you ever do but giving the baby to a couple that desperately want the child is a lot easier than killing him/her.
It’s not surprising that your boyfriend is pissed, if you keep the baby your childhood/adolescence is finished, he’s probably more angry with himself than with you.
I have a handful of female friends who had abortions in there late teens and are still living with the guilt 10 years later… don’t make the samme mistake.
by carrying the baby for another couple you are turning this situation into an enormouse blessing for someone else
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I’m not going to tell you to not do abortion, because it is your choice. If your boyfriend is going to treat you like that, then good riddance, I say. But I know it is difficult without someone supporting you.
I would seek help from other places as well. WIC is a great place, as well as emotional support from good friends and family. I wish you luck, my friend.
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keep your child. you may hear people give you the optionn of adoption but keep this little miracle, everything happens for a reason. and no mater what the bf is apart of that childs life and needs to pay child support if he chooses not to be in the childs life.
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Adoption…the only choice without ruining you and the baby’s life.
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Yeah. You should both get sterilized. The world doesn’t need any more idiots from idiots like you two.
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