So there’s this boy will call him jake well jake and I have been going out for about 4 weeks he told me that’ he has never dated someone as amazing as me and that I am the most beautiful girl he has ever seen an no one can compare to me that I was better than any one he has ever dated he said my beauty is what made him reconize me but my personality is what made him stay.. Then we went to this carnival type thing sponsored my the high school we had fun I walked him to his car for his ride he gave me a kiss told me I was beautiful and said he loved me then left well at the carnival he showed me off to all his friends from school and introduced me as his Gf they were telling me I was pretty he said he was gitting comments behind my back like( good job, damn, get you some) and he don’t like that other guys were looking at me like that I’m Supost to be moving in the summer but it’s not a for sure thing yet so the next day after the carnival he calls me and says ( I don’t think it’s gonna work I’m going to be heart broken when you leave so I don’t want to fall in love with you then be left alone) when we talked about me moving before and it didn’t seem to be a proboblim but the he also said something about people from my school tell him things ? And then he hanged up after arguing abit. Then my sister called him a few days latter to find out what was going on he said the heart thing first then she said well tell me about this you know people thing? And he said people were telling him I was flirting with boys and cheating on him ( witch I wasn’t) then he refused to give a name. Then he said he has feelings for another girl. Then he said the cheating thing agin about me flirting ? Then my sister says well do you want her to get over it and just forget about y’all forever and he says ( no That’s not what he wants) she says well are y’all gitting back together and he changes the subject
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I have to tell you that I too have been in this kind of predicament. And what I am going to tell you now might not make you happy. But it needs to be said. #1 – You are selling yourself short by choosing to be with a guy who would be so flaky. #2 – How were you dressed? I know that a lot of young people just think that they can dress how they want to without any problems. But the fact is that it causes a lot of problems. You should not be dressed in such a way that causes the guys around you to degrade you. And yes, those friends of his were degrading you. All they saw you as was a sex symbol. Not a person with feelings. If you want to be treated like a lady and with some respect. Then dress respectfully. Also, act respectfully. Don’t just fall for some guy that you think is cute. That my dear will hurt you every time. #3 – A guy will come up with every excuse to break up with a girl who he doesn’t really care about. Either you gave him what he wanted and now he is done with you, or you weren’t giving it fast enough and he is tired of waiting. That is not the kind of guy who really cares about your feelings or a true relationship.
The only way to find the kind of guy that will love you and take care of you is to trust in the Lord to bring you a man. God loves you and wants the best for you. All you have to do is trust in Him. Give your life to Him and He will bless you very much.
John 3:16 For God so loves the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Jesus Christ came to die on the cross for all mankind. He loves each and every person. However, we are all sinners. We all do bad things. Even when we don’t realize it. We may think we are good people. We might not smoke or drink. We might not do drugs. But even a little lie is a sin. Because of our sin, we cannot go to heaven to be with God. We deserve hell. But that’s not the end of it. I just told you about John 3 :16. God loved us so much that He made a way for us to still go to heaven. Just believe in what He did. He died for us. He took our sin away so that we could be with m Him. Once you believe in Jesus Christ and trust Him as your Saviour your life will be much more peaceful. I am not saying you won’t have problems again. But God will help you through the problems and help you to understand what to do. I really hope that you read this and understand it. Please contact me if you have any more questions. I really hope that you let this guy go and choose a better life without him. Because you are a special girl and need to be cared for by a godly man who will love you and give you a good safe home.
By the way. My name is Brianna too. 🙂 🙂