Like I think everyone has to meet my expectations. I’m not concited I’m actually really insecure. Idk why I feel like this I guess its cause I feel i’d do it for them or not do it to them so I expect them to do the same for me. Why do I do this and how do I stop.. I hate it, it ruins everything. I try to keep it in but then end up getting mad at people… idk I guess I watch too much tv and read to many books..
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Answerer 1
You dont have to be nice to people to accept there flaws. Just realize that everyone has there problems and you cannot fix all of them. I find that fixing one personality flaw only makes another one more noticeable. And i also find that the happier i am, the more forgiving of other peoples imperfections i become.
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An extremely forgiving person who is very good at holding grudges.
Answerer 2
Its totally normal to feel this way
And sorry to say this but insecurities does play a big part in this, you expect more from others because you’d be willing to do so much more for them
Buuuut fact is people let you down
Dont let that ruin the beauty in things, instead of focusing on the negative rather try to see the stuff they do right
Accept no one is perfect and accept that you are not either, Just try to be all you can be
(I know I also sometimes expect people to be like they are in books, but they dont follow the script)
Good luck 🙂 xx