Why do I get treated like this? Eye candy?

yep you have grown up a bit , don’t stop working out if you enjoy it and like the way you look i don’t know how old you are have some fun now while ur young the serious stuff can come later.

i go for personality mainly the good looks are a bonus and the good bod that’s also a bonus.

the men of many a year looked at women as eye candy on their arm may be this is pay back .ha ha ( sorry just had to add that bit)

If you didn’t mention you were a guy, everyone would assume this was coming from a woman. Not just being used for your body but the passivity of it all. If you get women that easily, then you should have no problems going up to the women who interests you instead of just picking from the ones who come up to you. Just stop being a punk and you’ll be fine. The type of women who wouldn’t be shy about using you so blantantly for sex are also the types that would ask you out on dates.

wow usually this is what girls go through. now you know what it feels like. just say no to the dates and look for the girl who is shy of sasking you out or look for the girl who doesnt seem interested and you should actually ask her out. I mean, if every1 is asking you, you should ask the one girl who isnt asking you good luck

yeah… guys dont like it / respect it when girls ask them out… i think you should look beyond the crowd and look at the girls you wouldnt normally look at (obviously not the unattractive ones). these are the girls with substance – who cannot be bothered guy chasing because they’ve got other things in their lives. people with other things in their lives are more interesting, and therefore you are more likely to build a meaningful relationship with.

ok here is my advice meet someone through the internet or meet through the phone..like a dating thing u kno?? anyway just get to kno them through phone or internet or hell both…she wont kno what u look like and she will like u for u and not ur body and then when she meets u for the first time she will already like u for u and then when she sees the body she will obviously like that too….get what im saying

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do not let yourself go. there are women who want a good relationship. you should consider not going out with anyone who does the asking. keep your eyes open for someone who grabs your attention and you do the asking! hang in there!

I don’t wanna sound like a dick but why are you complaining? There are people like myself who aren’t in as god a shape as you and probably not at attractive as you and aren’t getting anything no dates no girls talking to them or anything. You should just be happy your getting attention.

dont lose the body.. or maybe just a little. and see what effect that has.. sooner or later someone who will want to see you as you are will come along.. it might just take somet ime :/

it’s funny cause all girls think guys only check them out for their bodies and they get all mad when they catch us staring at them. it’s a funny world we live in

you need to find a girl pretending, or not interested in you, therefore she doesnt just want you for just your looks, and you can ask her out and work it up from there!