How would you answer?
PS: The reason I ask this is because new people i meet seem to enjoy my company, and then when they ask who i hang out with, I tell them the truth that I don’t have anyone to hang out with..they ask me “why don’t you have any friends”? This is a very demoralizing question that ruins my mood.
I notice that the majority of people will subsequently think that there MUST be something wrong with me, or that I’ll never be anything but baggage and an energy drain for them. I find that they start distancing themselves (even if nothing went wrong), and resort to just saying hi/bye and being artificial. I hate it.
Trust me..it’s hard to make friends when you’re an adult (esp when you don’t have many from school because you came from an area full of ***** ups, and you were bullied)
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Tell them exactly what you just said. That It’s hard to make friends as an adult and that you didn’t have many friends in school because you were bullied. But there are plenty of ways to make friends as an adult, you know! You should join a country club located in your area! You’ll make plenty of friends there! Just do something that you enjoy and that a lot of other people are into and are going to! Then eventually you’ll make more friends. By adult do you mean like a young adult as in college student? Or an actual grown adult? Stick to the country club if you’re a grown adult. If you’re a young adult you can join a country club, you can join tons of clubs! Art club, volley ball, tennis, cheerleading, paint ball team, french club, ect. And even if you’re a grown adult you can do all those things! In the community that you live in there will more than likely be community activities! Go to one on those and make new friends to hang out with. If people are moving away from you because they think that you’re an “energy drain,” then show them that you’re not! Show them that you’re fun to be around and that they’re lucky to even know who you are. Make them want to get to know you more!
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I wish you good luck in making new friends! -Blossom
Maybe they’re asking in a positive way of thinking. I mean they probably asked you because they’re wondering why you don’t have friends even you have a good attitude. You have done nothing wrong, they are the ones at fault and it’s better to avoid friends like that. They aren’t your real friends and they don’t accept who you are, meaning they’re fake.
Because people are rude. I met up with a friend of mine who I hadn’t seen for years. I was really looking forward to seeing her again, hearing about her life etc. She was immediately jealous about my weight loss and started becoming mean and rambling on about how much she envies pretty girls. Also in stead of saying my hair looks nice, like other people have, she just said, “You look so much more like your mother with that haircut. Your mother is a very beautiful woman.” The next time I saw her in public she actually just glared at me and said “Excuse me I have to go look for books.” And that is why I don’t have friends. It’s because people always have some problem with me.
Cav’, first of all, profanity is the sign of a weak mind, so it is not at all attractive, even when veiled in asterisks.
Your answer can be: “I’m hanging out with you … right now … and enjoying it.”
The past is the past; you cannot change it. Live for the moment.
just like the other poster when I try
all I get back is jealousy. People hang out
with others they don’t feel threatened by.
maybe they are scared you’ll steal away
their man or something.
“They’re too nosy and find out things they can’t live with, so they kill themselves mysteriously.”
Because I pick my friends carefully.
Because I generally don’t like people.
just tell em you haven’t found anyone worth hanging with.. Or u can just lie. Lol I realize telling the truth has evolved into a vicious cycle so try the latter