Ok so when i was about five years old there was this girl in my school that used to touch me and also bully me. She just randomly squeezed my vagina at times, and i didnt tell her anything because i didnt know what was going on and i was scared. She also bullied me by taking off the elastics i used to tie my hair up with. Ever since that day, i have not worn my hair up to school,not ever. And by telling me chucky was hiding in the bathroom and other things. If it were not for me accidentally telling my sister what was appending she would have kept doing it. My sister then told my mom and she told the teacher. From then on she never did it again.
IN the years after that i became super shy, although i was kind of already shy, to the point where i wouldn’t even answer my peers when they talked to me. It became extremely difficult to make friends because i was so scared to talk. Now that i am in highschool, i am still shy but feel comfortable talking to people and such.( im 16 btw)
Well now what im asking, was my extreme shyness due to what that girl did. Was i really molested? I have never really thought Of that until now. I have pretty much blocked it out ever since it ended, so i dont really remeber all the times she touched me but i know it happened.
Any input would be appreciated…thanks!
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Dear CB, you are not alone in your feelings and if after what i tell you sheds no light…please talk to a professional. The girl who did this was obviously having some issues at home. perhaps she,was displacing her confusion and anger and you just,happened to be her target. Who knows, but know that children at that age are naturally curious seexually and what ur describing doesnt sound like molestation to me. This girl may have been mimicing abuse. that is,unfortunate. However, this should not effect ur life in such a,way that makes u feel different or socially awkward. You are 16 and ur at a turningpoint yourself. youre just getting to know urself. Everything now is supposed to be awkward. Take an acting class and get your hands on a psychology 101 text book. Or a human sexuality 101 college text. Theres great explanations. Im glad ur mom and sister know…because i think had u held this in…THAT may have negatively affected ur social development. You are ok from what i read. I hope the other little girl got help. I wish u the best, u are a perfectly normal…now go enjoy your youth…dont,waste it being shy!!!! xoxo
I would say that you were bullied more than anything. I really wonder about the other girl. For her to go around grabbing other girls vagina’s shows some serious issues. Children who do those kinds of things are usually molested themselves and act out revenge on some unsuspecting person. Unfortunately, in this case it was you. See a therapist to deal with your shyness. It may or may not be related to this incident. Best of luck to in the future.
Grandpa Mike
i too had had this experience but yours is ur sweet vagina. But mine was my penis. Later u don’t have any physical disability right ?try contol ur mind or go for a social phobiac treartment
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That girl is probably a les today
sometimes we don’t want to remember something so much that our brain makes us forget it, what that girl did was completely wrong. go see a therapist or something, honestly it helps 🙂