Okay so I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months and nothing has really been wrong. But then one of my friends caught him talking with another girl of him cheating or breaking up with me. And my friend talked to the girl on Facebook and she said that my bf was saying that he wanted to break up with me bcz I didn’t hang out with him tht much. (And I will admit I haven’t gone out with him bcz I get so shy and I get so involved with my school work and music) This broke my heart…
But then one of my other friends came and I told her about this. Then she said that my bf have had told her something too but she didnt want to talk me bcz she was scared that I was going to get hurt and she promised him she wouldn’t tell me. So now I know that there’s something my bf and my friend are hiding something n I really hate that.
I’m really scared to talk to him about this bcz I trust him with all my heart. I’ve never been through his Facebook or his phone. And there has been times where people told me that he was doing something but I know they are just trying to get me out of the relationship bcz they don’t really like him. But on the other side they’re all my friends and I know they are trying to protect me. I’ve already tried to talk to him but he says there’s nothing and they are all lies and how he loved me so much. I’m just so confused. So should I try to talk to him again even though I have a feeling he will think I don’t trust him. I really do is just that even the girl told my friend what my bf said n he’s not telling me or my friend.
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You’ve already confronted him. If there was something wrong, then he would have said it at that time. I do not think you should ask him again, because you already did and it is resolved in his eyes.
If you are only going by your “friend’s word” and no other proof, then I think they are trying to start trouble.
If you do love him, then you should trust him and believe him when he says that everything is okay.
If he is lying and he does break up with you, then that is on him and he is the idiot and not good enough for you.
If he is seriously considering that, then he has no true feelings for you. Break up with hime and find some one who will care for you and understand that you cant always hang out. That guy is a severe dick head for doing that crap.