My ex Girlfriend and i had have been broken up for about 2 weeks now after going out for about 5 months. She broke up with me on because she has a fair bit of emotional situations going on and that because she didnt want a relationship at the moment she broke up with me. She says that she still has feelings for me but not as strong as mine. Since been broken up i have been a mess i already suffer from depression and i have been struggling with life without her. She really was my only happyness in my life at this time i just really want her back and i was wondering if there is anything i can do to help maybe head in that direction. We all ready have decided that we would go out for lunch in about a week or to but i just want to know if there is anything that could help get her back. Or should i wait and see what hapends i just keep on thinking that i am loosing her at the moment and i really dont no wat i would do without her
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This sounds like me when my gf called it quits after two years when I was in high school. It was my first love and you never get over that one but you learn from it and remember the good times. Love is like a bird, sometimes you got to let it be free to be happy.
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I think you should let her have time to see if she misses you. If you stop being the one to contact her she will if she feel anything for you. And if she doesnt shes not worth it. And she may not want you back even if she wants to be friends.. My boyfriend and i broke up about 3 months ago because he MAY move to africa and he still just wants to be bestfriends even though i’d take him back in a heartbeat!
Unfortunatly love doesnt always go both ways.. But i wish you good luck! I hope you will feel happy again soon, though it will take time. I’m still not over my boyfriend but we had been together for 5 years.. But anyways ill stop talking about me now so GOOD LUCK. If she doesnt want to be with you you will find better!
Just wait and see what happens and how she feels about the situation. explain it to her. You cant force things like this so just let time take its course.
it’s important not to get it into your head that you deffo will get her back…it’s really hard but you parted for a reason…i think the best thing to do i find out by asking her if you have split forever or are you just on a break.