I’m wondering how many of you lost past spouses/significant others the same way you happened to get them. For example: if you got together while playing golf, did you later lose them to another golfer? If you met them in a bar, did you later lose them to another person in a bar?
I ask because I met my husband while he was working out of town (happened to be my city he was working in). He hasn’t worked out of town for about 3 years now but is now on an out of town job. Since he’s been gone he seems to be hitting the clubs quite often. His calls are less and less, later and later. He barely even calls when he can talk to his son anymore (it’s my stepson). When I ask why he’s calling so late, he says he worked late or fell asleep after work, etc. I’m beginning to wonder if he’s up to no good. It is, after all, how he picked me up.
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You have no proof so don’t work yourself up for nothing. I think your concern is legitimate. Start off by having a serious heart to heart with him. If that doesn’t help matters come back for plan B!
Give him a call and say this “I had the most terrible dream last night, that you were out of town and were hitting on women and sleeping with them just as you did with me!” and wait for his reaction. Trust me.
so you’re taking care of HIS son while he’s out of town and playing around with other women,huh? leave that house (with his kid there) and move out a.s.a.p. don’t wait for this looser to come home either. he doesn’t deserve your loyalty. cut all contact with him and be the first one to file for divorce too. if he’s got a pretty good bank account that you likewise have access to then drain the account dry and open up another account in your name only. good luck!
Red Flags all over the place.
Confront him about this. I think you should have a little more faith and trust in him, but I can’t say if he’s being faithful or not. I wouldn’t know.
you’ve got a good point.