Girls!!! What do I do?

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Girls!!! What do I do?
I’m in love with this girl, we’ve had a long history but are finally talking fantastically again and really getting to know each other once more. I love her so much and I know she see’s me as really good friend, but I need to make her feel like I’m the type of guy she could go further with.

What do you like guys to say/do around you, that make you think they’re mature, cute but also very caring?

After all, I just want to make her feel happy and special.

Thanks 🙂 x

✅ Answers

  • Answerer 1

    Give her flowers and surprise her with them. Tell her she’s beautiful, and be gentle with her. We like tender kisses more than pashing.

    Hold the door and chair out for her; tell her she’s cute; tuck strands of hair behind her ears and stare into her eyes. Hug her randomly and tell her you love her (IF YOU MEAN IT!)

    Tell her she’s special to you and that she means the world to you (once again, only IF YOU MEAN IT).

    The best of luck- she’s a very lucky girl. 🙂

  • Answerer 2

    from my experience ive learned i like guys that have a little mystery to them. they always seem to be doing something and i get really curious what they are doing 🙂 just dont be tooooooooo nice. coz then she will definitely think of you as a friend. just tease her a bit, and leave her wondering about things. then sometimes be reaally, sweet. she’ll find she wants that more and more 🙂 until she realises its you she wants!

  • Answerer 3

    Ask her out somewhere just for fun, and see what happens, I like when people take me out somewhere. Say she’s pretty.

  • Answerer 4

    My boyfriend came to pick me up with a huge bunch of roses in the passenger seat. I’d advise doing something like that. It sounds soppy, but we flippin’ love roses.

  • Answerer 5

    Tell her that. Let her know you think she
    is special and that you like her. More then
    a friend. Then go in for a kiss if she responds
    the way you want her to. Good luck to you! 🙂

  • Answerer 6

    that’s really sweet, good on you 🙂
    why can’t more men be like you?!
    just tell her how you feel, that you admire her, respect her, think she’s wonderful within and without. be patient with her and don’t rush or pressure her. just prove that you’ll always be there for her no matter what and that she can tell you anything and you’ll look after her. tell her how special you think she is, even write a poem and tell her how you feel and all the things you love about her. i would think that was really sweet and special. remind her of all the great things you’re been through together, or the not so great things, that worked out great in the end, like, ‘….i’m sort of glad….happened, cause it bought me closer to you..’ awwwww!!!
    Just tell her you want her to take a up a bigger place in your heart and that you want her to see you as more than a friend someday, ask her opinion of that, and don’t pressure her. I for one hate to be pressured. Even if it means being very patient, if she truly is the girl of your dreams, treat her as if she is.

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    good luck 🙂

  • Answerer 7

    (Coming from a very romantic woman)… The best things you can do are to comment on her outfits, saying she looks nice, and things like that. Tell her that you like her laugh/ find her funny/ or that you think she deserves a really awesome, cute, caring man in her life, can also get you brownie points.
    Helping her with her issues, of course, is another way to show you care. Just make sure that you don’t come across as pushy in the way you compliment her, because then you’ll be seen as weird or acting strange, which is a bad thing. But if you say these things randomly, not in the same day, but maybe spread across a whole week, I bet you in a month you’ll both already be together. 🙂 Good luck!

    “Let me let you in on a secret,
    How to treat a woman right,
    If you’re looking for a place in her heart,
    It ain’t going to happen over night,

    First you’ve got to learn to listen,
    To understand her deepest thoughts,
    She needs to know you can be friends,
    Before she’ll give you all she’s got,

    If you start, From the heart,
    You’ll see love is going to play it’s part,
    If you want to get to know her,
    Really get inside her mind,
    If you want to move in closer,
    Take it slow, Yea,
    Take your time,

    You’ve got to start,
    From the heart,
    And then,
    If you wanna touch her,
    Really wanna touch her,
    If you wanna touch her, Ask.”

    –Helpful lyrics from Shania Twain’s song: “If you wanna touch her, Ask!”

    I hope I’ve helped.

    Source(s):
    Personal Experience

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