Okay so heres the deal, iv liked this guy for a while and i found out he liked me to so we first started texting then it went to talking on the phone (im only 14 and hes 19 but iv nver thought of going out with him ever but i liked talking to him) my parents didnt like me talking to guys on the phone so he’d always call at night.. and well after a few months he starts calling me weird crap like ‘babe’ or ‘honey’ and alot of other crap.. i nvr said anything about it, well now he always says he loves me and stuff. I wud sumtimes say i luv u too but i know i really dont mean it, at least not anymore. i think it was just a crush, but maybe since hes older he thought more of it. BUT i dont want a boyfriend right now.. i have alot of issues going on and since he calls me at night im up til like 3am and im falling asleep at school and getting really behind. i told him this but all he says it sorry. and he continues to call.
SO yea i dont really think of him as a boyfriend and im sick of this, hes like a weight on my back and i cant find the nerve to shake him off.. he is my friend, but i just dont think of him like the way he does to me. So how can i tell him? i feel afraid to tell him on the phone, and i dunno if maybe i should send him a email or somthing. i dunno, iv been crying alot over this and please maybe some can give some advice.
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OK number 1: I dont know what a 19 year old is doing talking to a 14 year old in the first place.. thats a little creepy and kind of cradle robbing!! so i think hes weird for that one.
NUmber2: if you want to get rid of him just tell him you dont love him let alone like him like that in any way and that he needs to stop calling. if he keeps calling you then just dont answer. you need to be harsh.. i know it sounds mean now.. but trust me girl youll fell wayyyyy better once its over. also he sounds like i said creepy so just be careful.. you never know how hes going to take it.. he might turn into some stalker or something.. if that happens just hit up the popo lol they can help you there. but if all goes well he’ll just be depressed and leave you alone 🙂
first off u shouldnt be messing with a 19 year old..hes probably talking to u cause he wants to use u for one thing..so hes saying he loves so u can like him alot and hook up with him..if u want to break it off, just tell him ur parents found out that u were talking on the phone with him and that u cant talk to him on the phone..also tell him that u really need to focus on ur school and ure not doing well. or u can just be straight up and tell him that u only like him as a friend and nothing more and it would probably be best if he found somebody else.