How do I deal with my family judging me?

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I’m staying with my Grandparents this weekend, and I hate HATE HATE eating with them, because I used to deal with an eating problem, and now all they ever do is patronize me with food!!! Like yesterday, I was watching t.v at their house, and at every commercial, they’d ask, “do you want some pudding, it’s sugar-free, and fat free!” and it’s not just that, it’s their tone of voice and vibes. UHH, and I just had dinner here at my house BECAUSE IM SOO HUNGRY, and if I go over there, if i don’t have anything, they’ll say I “don’t eat!”.. and later tonight my cousin is having a surprise Bday party, and I don’t eat cake, so if I say I don’t want any, people will judge me! What do i do, what do i say back to these people?

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  • You are worried about what they think about you…why? You have nothing to prove to them, but you feel like you do. It has nothing to do with them, and everything to do with how you see yourself. First, you have to be happy with yourself and be okay with your eating habits and realize that you are making good choices for yourself. Once you realize that – and really believe it, then you will feel better about just being yourself when you are around them whether you are eating or not. Maybe the truth is that you are not making good choices for yourself. Either way, keep your cool as best you can and politely tell them that you are working hard not to make food an issue for you and you would appreciate them doing the same.
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  • You should just live your life. You should tell them that you eat when you are hungry and tell you that you do not like it when they constantly worry about you or ask you if you are hungry. Tell them that you are thankful for them trying to help you but you do not need any help. If you do not want any pudding or cake you should not have to eat it.

  • your grandparents arent judging you, relax. older people always offer food. and they get offended if you dont eat what they offer. its just the way it is.

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    my grandmother used to always offer me food when i visited her too…. soup, cookies, bread and butter etc etc

  • It’s your body and you put into it what you want. If they can’t respect that, then they just don’t respect you. What do you do in a group that can’t respect you?..

  • just say no thanks or accept…your choice…dont make a big deal

  • i kicked my sisters boyfriend in the nuts when he called me a dork in front of my family

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