I started highschool this year, and my two bestfriends and I kind of got split up. The two of them stuck together, but I kind of got seperated from our little group. Now were hanging out again, but they’ve met these 2 boys that we hangout with now. Now it’s me, my 2 bestfriends, and these 2 boys that I barely know. I go to football games and things with them and they cuddle and stuff and I just sit there all awkward, they aren’t dating but it’s still awkward for me to be there! How do I deal with that? :S
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1- Speak up. Tell you friends, when the boys aren’t there, how you feel. It’s unfair, and it sucks to not have any fun all the time.
2- Bring someone with. Even if the two people aren’t familiar with each other, make them. Then, you have a point and someone to talk to.
Hope I helped.<3
Talk to the other boys that go with you guys, I’m sure they’re feeling left out too!
Make new friends, or talk to people you don’t always talk to.
The thing in high school is, everyone thinks you’re supposed to fit into your little group of 5 or 10 friends. Well that’s not real life. you have to adapt to new situations and network with different people.
Either get used to it and act casual or find another group of people that make you feel comfortable. Maybe say something to them, let it be known to them that it is in fact awkward and maybe it will be less awkward.
Be the comic relief?
Find somebody to date?
Maybe they can set you up with someone their boyfriends know? I know it’s awkward, has happened to me too, but maybe you can make new friends too, while still being best friends with the ones you have now. So when they want to spend time with theyre bf’s, you still have other friends to hang out with?
Alright, same thing happens with me all the time. I usually pull them aside and talk about it with my friends and they’ll include me more. Or I just embrace it and it seems better.
Dont go with them if u find it awkward . And I’d they are all ways with them then tel them that u are left out when u r there and and only
Hang out with Them when they aren’t there ? 🙂
Either fine new friends or grin and bare it.
find a date for yourself and join the party!!!! and if you dont have a date i suggest you dont go thats just weird
Pretend there’s nothing wrong , it’s the same thing with me:L