how do you know if your ready to do it ?

9 months huh?

Hmm. I have a friend who has been liking a guy for 9 months, any thoughts??

You can’t even bloody say sex.. yeah thats right.. say it.. scream it!

SEX!!! SEX!!! SEX!!! SEX!!! SEX!!! SEX!!! SEX!!! SEX!!! SEX!!! SEX!!!

Okay, back to reality, no you’re not ready and keep you legs closed you naughty girl! Shame on you! What would your mother think if she heard you were pregnant… its not like I know your mum or anything (starts to sweat) haha..

Just don’t do it okay! You’re getting me paranoid!

I would wait if I were you. Losing your virginity is something that you want to be 110% ready for. Do you know about the risks of STD’s? Are you ready to take on the responsibilities of being pregnant and having a baby? Is there a chance that you could become pregnant with a baby that doesn’t have a father if your boyfriend were to leave. Talk these things over and then the two or you should ultimately decide what you are ready for. You could have dry sex (clothes on) if you felt the need to have sex.

Honestly, you are way too young. If you can’t say the word sex, you can’t be ready.

Sex isn’t something you should do because you feel obligated. You should want to do it, not do it because he wants you too. If you don’t know if you’re ready, you aren’t. You will know who is the right person, and when is the right time. If you are unsure, don’t have sex. Sex should be something you are absolutely positive you are ready for, and if you are doubting, it’s too early. It’s a big decision to make and you are too young to bear the burden.

Don’t have sex unless you know you are ready. Don’t let him pressure or scare you into having sex before you feel that you are ready. Tell him that you aren’t sure, and if he’s a decent guy, he will wait until you are positive about your decision.

you are a little young to be thinking about having sex but in my experience (i did it at 14 for the first time) you should know when to have sex in your own time. you should have talked about it with someone you trust as well as your bf. if hes pressuring you (no matter how could the relationship is) then defos dont do it. dont forget that no matter how many times youve had sex or how much you trust that person things will definately be different after youve had sex for the first time. it may even lead to breaking up if you both decide afterwards that you werent ready after all and then how bad would you feel? i know you probably dont want too but talk to one of your parents. mine found out before i did it and they were the biggest help that i could have gotten. youll remember your first time for the rest of your life so make sure its what you want x good luck with what you decide

if you dont know if you are ready for it then your aren’t. its ok though, your 13!! take all the time you want, if he is really “the one” then he will wait and understand. don’t rush it! sex really isn’t as wonderful as its made out to be…especially the first time. you don’t want it to be one of those moments you look back on and cringe from regret, ya know? don’t feel obligated to just for the guy cuz if you put your in that position your just gonna get walked all over. don’t do anything you don’t want to. if you get that feeling in your gut, listen to it!!

It’s tough when you are young and you really care about someone. BUT there is no going back once you do this. There is one time that someone is going to be your first. That is a part of you that you give to that person and they will always have it. You can’t get it back. Do you understand? You need to be very sure about something like this. Waiting will be worth it….trust me.

well i would say if you love him and you think your ready then yes, but if you are not sure maybe you should wait untill your sure you want too, if you say to him i dont know if i am ready yet and he acts horrible towards you then he is not the right person too lose your virginity too, if he understands and waits for you then you know he is right, also if he is pressuring you into it then he is not right and you should put him in his place hope this helped 🙂

You’re 13. Would you be ready to be a mom, and walk around the school with a big, round stomach?

If you can’t say sex, and you say “it”, you’re definitely not ready.

Your not even old enough, so doing so that is just ******* disgusting and makes you both a peedo to a certain extent, get a ******* life.

Wtf is wrong with the youth today

if im not mistaken you shouldnt be doing it until you are 15 or 16 at least according to the law

stick to it