serious question.
I was going to an old teacher in rotc to ask for a letter of recommendation and he said he didn’t write a letter for people who drop out of rotc .That is fine by me because I understand but he lied about that that statement because he wrote a letter for my friend who also dropped out of rotc. Then he said that he didn’t remember me anyway. My confidence just went down for a second. Because then I started thinking. I did a lot of activities in rotc,i was in the drill team and he even said I was one of the best marchers. I sacrificed a lot and was faithful so I didn’t understand how I was forgetful unless he said that to everyone in rotc and I was not really that special. So now I dint want to go anywhere else where a person does not remember me or know my name. I never want to be forgetful again. Does anybody have tips on how to be less forgettable and how to get people to remember me?
2
✅ Answers
? Favorite Answer
be yourself
peace
Help, I married my mother-in-laws last and favouirite daughter and it´s been very hard going from day 1, we always fight and spend months without talking, but then I´ll make an effort and go around to hers again and everything will be sweet until the next argument, and then a few more months of not talking and so on.
The other day my baby boy hit me on the head with a broom handle, so I took the broom and threw it on the floor, mother-in-law and wife told me he´s just a baby, Ok, but I never shouted and I never hit anybody, then mother-in-law told me she never wanted to see me again, I never said a word but wished I had. Wife practically asked me to leave for behaving like that.
I appologised a week later for my behavoiur and everything was fine again, until today, we walked past mother-in-law in the street and neither she nor I said a word, and wife blew a fuse and asked me to leave for good, again.
I have had enough and feel I have to keep bending over thanks to this blasted woman, I can´t take it any more and want to know if I have a problem or is it both of our problems, my wife only blames me,,,,,