How to kiss for the first time?

I’m 13(don’t judge) and my boyfriend has kissed a girl before… I haven’t kissed a boy! We are going cinema next week and I want to know how to kiss?

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  • Never having kissed someone before is completely normal and something to be proud of because waiting is always better, no matter what anyone else says. Feel free to follow this guide below to create your perfect first kiss.

    Every kiss lasts a different amount of time and it really depends on what type of kiss and the mood.

    If you are giving each other a peck on the lips (lips together), those usually are rather quick. Up to a one second in length would be the longest one peck would last. But if you are kissing more intently (lips slightly parted) or with tongue (lips completely apart) then depending on the mood (whether a kiss goodbye or a kiss under the stars) It could last 5 to 40 seconds. Every kiss is different, and once you have had your very first one, you will have a feel for what you like and what you would do differently next time.

    Signs To Look Out For (that he may want to kiss):

    1) He may be very physical around you. Such things as poking, grabbing you in a playful way, play with your hair.

    2) He watches your lips when you talk.

    3) He smiles a lot when around you.

    If you have never kissed before, letting him know that you have never kissed anyone before is something of a personal choice. You can and you cannot. It really doesn’t matter. If you way too nervous and feel as though you might mess up a little, just politely tell him you are nervous. He should understand if he likes you.

    When it comes to a first kiss, everything should come naturally. It’s a given!

    SIDE NOTE: Don’t ever rush into a first kiss, do it because you’re truly ready.

    Good places to kiss him for the first time could be after a nice touchdown during a football game, in between classes as a kind of “just because you are mine” kiss, or a day in the park on a nice stroll. Depending on your where you are in the moment, your hands will and should be wherever it is most comfortable for you. Whether that is on his face, around his neck, on his waist pulling him in, or in each others hands. Wherever it is comfortable for you.

    1) How to get him to kiss you

    When it comes to guys and relationships, if you want something to happen like a first kiss, I always think it’s better to show a guy then to just tell him. Sometimes people who are nervous send out mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but your nervous behavior might be saying “stay away.” For starters, your posture should be open. Sit or stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the ground. Don’t cross your arms or lean away or, instead of “kiss me” you’ll be saying “kiss off”. Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you’re not holding hands yet, do it. Here are some ways to hint at it subtly! Spray perfume (something he likes) in your hair, it makes him want to get closer. Lean to your closer when you talk to him. Look in his eyes when you talk, then down to his lips, then back up to his eyes. Chew gum, mints, apply lip balm often when he’s around, maybe he’ll get the hint. And play with a necklace and he’ll be drawn to the skin on your neck, inches away from your lips!

    Also you could ask him to help you remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that necklace you’re wearing. Or better yet, ask him to help put a necklace of yours on. To do that he’s going to have to put both hands on your neck. Now just turn your head, look in his eyes, and be quiet. Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper his name softly. He’ll kiss you for sure! And remember, you can always kiss him. Don’t be afraid to step up to the plate. If a kiss is something you want, take it.

    2) How to kiss

    When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and press gently against his lips. Tilt your head slightly to one side, so your noses won’t get in the way. What do you do next? It depends. If it’s just a little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but (this is very important) don’t move away all of a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss! Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands, and looking in his eyes.

    On the other hand, if you’re French kissing (or Frenching), French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongues. (That’s why you part your lips slightly.) So, after you’ve started kissing, the next step is that either he will slip his tongue into your mouth or you’ll slip yours into his. Don’t let your tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully push his tongue out with yours, then let him push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on. Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)

    Practice makes perfect!

    The only way to get good at kissing is to practice. Have fun. Just relax, everything should just come naturally. I know you hear that often but you will realize it is so true.

    Good Luck and God Bless!

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  • There is nothing to judge on i had my first kiss at 12. Kissing is kinda natural thing that you just know how to do. There are only a few things i can tell you about it tho. Lean your head to the right. Let him kiss you the first time. If you are sitting in the movie, and he kisses you, lean into him, put your legs over his lap. If you are standing waiting or something and he kisses you, wrap your arms around his neck and stand close so you two are touching. I wish you the best! Anymore questions?

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  • It happens naturally if you’re ready. The best thing to do would be to start with a gentle kiss on the lips, just touching your lips with his. Then open your mouth slightly, and make a connection with his lips. Move your jaw slightly and the rest should just happen. As for the hands, the waist is the best option, although generally the back is also ok. I wouldn’t worry about it 🙂 just make sure it’s what you want to do 🙂

  • Number one – HE should kiss YOU!

    Number two – It wasn’t until I was 14 that I had my first kiss

    Number three – Just to tell you, although I still think, being a traditionalist, that HE should kiss YOU, just lean in, make sure your lips are soft, and kiss him, pucker your lips a little too before you kiss him. NO tongue, just a nice little peck on the lips for say 3-5 seconds.

    Anyway, well, do hope I helped!

  • I was nervous before my first kiss – she had kissed plenty of men before. I just sort of went for it and pretended I knew what I was doing. It went okay.

    Just follow what you see in films and TV, but it’s pretty natural anyway. It just happens.

  • Well when moment arrives tell him that u don`t know how to kiss and ask him to teach u 😉 It`ll be very cute if u`ll do it right 😀 and romantic and unforgettable first kiss 😉

  • Just go and kiss. It is natural. But, dont go any further than kissing. Be careful

  • This sort of thing happened to me – just follow his pressure and you will work out what to do from there

  • Just move your lips!

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