Honestly, it has gotten to the point where i don’t even want to look at my reflection off of my phone, window, etc. Every time I do look at myself, all I see is a bunch of flaws. I don’t even make eye contact with people that much because I don’t want them to look at my face. I feel so ugly and it makes it even worse how most of the girls at my school are so pretty. I get so envious because they look so perfect. They all get treated so nicely by guys, and I’m just the girl who they tease since I’m a loser. I try to be nice, maybe I could get a nice personality going, but I still cry all the time about the ugly person I’am.
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Answerer 1
maybe you should consult to a psychiatrist or psychologist, etc. and consider the other people’s advices too. 🙂
Answerer 2
Inner beauty make’s you beautiful.
I don’t know you, I don’t know what you look like, but I do know this– You are beautiful.
All girls are beautiful.
Just because you say you aren’t AS pretty as them, doesn’t render you ugly at all.
It’s an actual habit, of most girls, to look at themselves and seek out the flaws.
You know all the girls that are ‘so pretty’ at your school?
Believe it or not, they go home and look in the mirror and half of them probably feel the same way you do.
They don’t see ‘pretty hair’ on themselves, they see ‘hair thats frizzy’ or ‘hair thats always tangled.’
When they see their skin they don’t see flawless skin, they see skin thats dirty looking and pimply and they have big pores.
It’s okay, I’m here with you, I understand you.
All girls feel this.
But your inside shine’s through all, and instead of working on what you can’t change, work on what you can so that you’re happy with yourself- Your personality. Which I can tell you is lovely. 🙂
Answerer 3
Hun, I don’t wanna get too open-minded and nice with your question. I do wanna give you some good advice since I’ve experienced that. A lot of girls have actually! BUT no body can ever tell or help you out unless you send a picture of you so you’ll be given direct and straight forward suggestions, tips and opinions.
We all have different a perspective towards our physical attributes either in a positive, overly-positive, negative or too negative way. No body from this site will ever know which level you belong (what i mean by that applies to how prettier you can get or maybe not a chance at all)
It’s not all about the looks but trust me darlin’… it can always affect your life! no matter what you do, it always is part of our daily lives. So before anything else, a photo would be better. Ignore shallow-minded people who will hate you. Delete the photo afterwards you’ve received suggestions/opinions.
Answerer 4
There are many people in the world who think they’re ugly, but unless they’re unfortunate to be seriously disfigured, they often aren’t seen as ugly by everybody. In fact, sometimes their looks are appealing to others.
Personality is where it’s at, at least for the long-term-relationship. Looks don’t last forever, but a crappy personality CAN and often does last a lifetime. So you’re on track to learn to communicate your feelings and craft a winning personality. Those two things are inseparable – if you can’t be honest with someone, then you’ll bottle up those feelings and explode every so often (not a great personality trait), leading to stress on the relationship and that could lead to failure.
I know plenty of people who one might think aren’t very attractive, but most of them have landed a very attractive mate, or at least one who’s got a great personality to add to the mix. Be patient and don’t let your negative view get you down.
Answerer 5
You sound like you have BDD (Body Dismorphic Disorder) just realize that others have this too and its fairly common in young people who still haven’t really established their identies or are unsure of themself. If you having been dealing with it for a really long time you might want to talk to someone about it
Answerer 6
well you could sit and moan or you can do something about it.
don’t like your looks? change them.
Answerer 7
boring