I hurt so bad and I don’t know how to stop thinking about him. I know he is with someone else and I don’t understand how he can easily move on with this woman after saying that he would always love me. We were together for 4 long years. I saw what she looks like and she is so much prettier than me and I am sure she has more to offer. I don’t know how to move past this and start feeling good about myself. It has been 8 months since our break up and I am confused as to how he got over it so fast. How do you move on?
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Dont worry, you will move on and you will be stronger then ever. It just takes some time thats all. Your going to be just fine. And believe me looks arent everything, its whats inside that counts.
Hmmm. Dunnno. A lot of boos and tattoos?
shag some young hot stud
Four years was a long time but looks aint everythin its whats inside that counts !! Men usually move on faster than us girls but you will an after 8 months i wood now start tryin !!! lol
Look sweetie, If he moved on that fast he may have been seeing her before he broke it off with you , Men wear their hearts on their ***** sometime and women on their sleeves, all i can tell you from experience is Time and dont shed one more tear over that jerk he is not spending time thinking about you right now and as far as prettier than you thats BS don’t lower your self to him you put on your best outfit and get back on that horse this is HOUSTON baby tons of cute available men and a shortage of women you are worth it and beautiful. so he can kick rocks,
You go out and buy you the nicest car and sunglasses and have a girls shopping spree……
its obviously not about looks, my husband cheated with a very ugly thing, he is just a lowlife
All you can do is take it one day at a time. People say that time heals all wounds. It doesn’t. What it does is teach us to deal with the pain in a productive way. The pain will never go away, but you will learn to put it in perspective of your life. A person who feels no pain or heartache has never loved or been loved because with love comes pain unfortunately. The only reason that he could have moved on so quickly is because in his mind the relationship was over long before he left. I believe that the pains and heartaches that we go through in love is to teach us. If we can learn from it, then we are better prepared for when our true love comes along. I am really sorry that you are hurting so much but when you do meet your true love, you will see that this love wasn’t what you thought it was. Keep your chin up and know that you are worthy of love and it will find you when you least expect it.
man I feel for you but you have to realize this is not your fault – and even if it is – you have to move on.
Take one day at a time, one breath at a time. each one is one step closer to the light at the end of the tunnel.
Would you want to live a life with a man that does not love you? If he loved you he could not do this with another woman. You see when you love someone you never want to hurt them. You think about them all the time, there is no room for another. You have proved that you are capable to love now find someone that is also capable to love. He is probably telling her the same things he told you and she will be left alone before long too. So, I say to you be strong and look for a trait in a man that shows that he can love and it is real not in passing.
You can do it, time is the key and no pressure to find another guy
i wondered the same exact thing when my husband of 10 yrs moved on just like that, turned out he had been cheating on me for 2 yrs with this woman. so he moved on along time before he actually left. i use to think the other woman had more to offer, my husband was in the wallpaper business and she could do wallpaper jobs where i couldn’t, it all looked like life was coming up roses for them, while my life seemed pretty much over. fast forward a few years, i moved on, remarried. him and the other woman split up, and he sits all by himself now. yes i hurt for years, use to compare myself to her also, wondering what was wrong with me that my husband could so easily walk out, it wasn’t about me any more than this is about u, nor does it reflect anything negative about u, the problem was within him. when someone leaves u it shows they aren’t in love with u, and u need to face it for what it is. sometimes u get stuck in a grief process and need therapy to help u get out of it.