I’m not good enough to be in a relationship or have a boyfriend. Almost every single time I like someone, it never works out because, mostly (not every time), I lack self esteem and I think I’m not good enough and that he could do better than me. I like a guy, and then usually he likes another girl/girls, and I look at them and they have everything I don’t.
For example; I’m not really that pretty AT ALL, I don’t play a sport or do any school activity, I don’t have the biggest boobs and butt in the world although I do have a butt (lol), I have nothing good about my personality that attracts guys whatsoever. So basically I’m ugly as shi.t and my horrible personality can’t make up for that. I have braces along with an obviously, ugly smile, brown eyes, and most of the time I leave my hair wavy/curly (natural), which most boys these days don’t like (they love the straight silky hair). I leave my hair like that because I don’t want to damage it. I just mainly wanted to vent, but any comments will be appreciated. And don’t say guys don’t like me because I don’t have confidence, guys don’t like me because I look like a ******* turd.
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Hi don’t beat your self up about it everyone’s different but were the same underneath. If you want to change your hairstyle do it and wear makeup if you want .remember looks isn’t about everything. Be proud of who you are and find
one thing that you like about your self workout and eat healthy and don’t worry about the boy there nicer lads out there then him he likes who he likes hoped this helped be happy of who you are 🙂
You must add some specifics. How are you not jewish enough? Are you not jewish in any respect? Is he very devout & you’re more secular? (Edited out the stuff that is without doubt no longer important.) speak with him. It seems like he has disorders although which have little to do with faith. Nevertheless, he will have to answer you actually on what the trouble is. If he’s orthodox which it feels like he his, then you have to recollect if that is anything proper for you — but only if he takes the steps of working with you. Is he so much of a communicater in other approaches? ============= bottom Barrow hit it on the head. If he did not talk about this with you & work on a compromise or at rent an figuring out, then he would not understand methods to do relationships, or is solely watching for an excuse.
Do you have a vagina? Do you look like a troll? If yes to the first and even sometimes yes to the latter, you’ll be fine. I’ve said to much.
You should never think ur not good enough for someone just never give up and if it doesn’t work out then then they weren’t the right person for you and never think such bad thoughts about yourself you may not always see it but every one has amazing culottes that some one out there will admire you weather u know it or not
start to make a concious effort to say positive things to yourself,and stop allowing your negative self talk in.lookimg for approval and validation from others does you no not the service you need .find that from within yoursef first then others will gravitate toward you.google joyce meyer s and her talk on ,power on youtube will be extremly helpful to you.
Don’t notice them, make them notice you. And the thing you lack is self confidence. Believe in yourself! Whatever happens is for the good! 🙂
Prostitute your self up it will work
Source(s): my dad