Hi,
My girlfriend broke up with me 4 month ago and since the breakup our relationship became worse to the current level which we don’t even say hi to each other. She is my classmate and ever since she broke up with (actually after one month), she seems happier and more social and flirts with every male creature around her. Our classes in the university are small, so we usually sit near each other. She has this group of friends consisting of and Indonesian girl and a Thai guy, who happens to be her best friend, who was one of the reasons that I got mad her, since she let the guy to be nicer with her than me. Never mind! The problem is after we broke up, she found a job and found a better place to live, which would be our dormitory!!! And the Thai guy also bought her a hamster and now she feels like a queen!!! I found a job too, with a salary twice hers 😀 O.K. Here comes the thing. She hates me bad, like a grudge, but she makes me so jealous that I may need some medicine or something. In the classes she acts like a 3-year-old baby and talks like a baby to everyone like her male/female friends and even the goddamn professors! Which was her special way of talking to me 😐 I get really pissed off when she gets that sweet, even sweeter than before and I just want to rip her heart out of her, but I deeply love her and I can’t. In every classes that we are, I have a goddamn high rate heartbeat and my fingers get cold, I can’ focus on the lectures and even in big classrooms, since her voice is really amazing and has a special frequency, I can hear it from the back and my heart just drops every time. To be more precise, she is truly KILLING me, and I am really worried about my mental health when she’s around! Any advice? 🙁 BTW, I hacked her computer few weeks ago and she found out, and wanted to go to the police, but didn’t, but her acts are confusing for me. Where that strong self-confidence and happiness comes from? We were our first by the way. 1 year relationship.
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Answerer 1
GET OVER HER!
Clearly you care what shes doing, so if she is trying to make you jealous, its working.
Just ignore her, move on with your life.
I dont hack peoples computers, you can get in big trouble for that! and its really obsessive!!
Answerer 2
Sounds to me like you really need to get over this girl.
She seems to have moved on and is enjoying making a damn fool out of you. Perharps she knows those things get to you.
Anyhow, you need to get over her because you are never ever getting back together – that’s the cold truth. I am not trying to be mean, I just want you to get that.
Get some professional help and speak to someone you can trust about this.
And don’t hack into her things it touch her stuff, bro. That’s weird.
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