me and my girlfriend of 2 years broke up 3 weeks ago. we have kept in contact, and have agreed to get back together in 3 more weeks. thing is, while we were broken up, she went out and had drunken sex with some of my friends. for some reason, the fact that she did that makes me not want to get back together with her. i know that if we get back together i wont want to hang out with those people and that she will be upset at that fact. i love her a lot, but her actions are tearing me apart inside. the worst thing about it is that after she does have sex, she comes home and tells me about it. i don’t know what to do in this situation, i feel like my heart is decaying, and i cant do anything about it. she has sent pictures to guys and i know that those guys will always have those pictures, and that troubles me. i really need some advice about what to do. this girl is the person i am committed to spend the rest of my life with, but i feel like she will always be tainted by her actions. so what do i do?
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Answerer 1
Shes made alot of mistakes but if she really loves you ( which you need to talk to her about) then she is crying out for a gesture ! like a commitment ring or something like that she doesn’t wanna have a fling she wants to know you wanna be with her for the rest of her life ! You need to do more things together and keep things spicey in the bedroom maybe she just wanted some excitement ( i know its no excuse) but if you love her… try
Answerer 2
If she cared about you, would she act this way? Think about it.
Answerer 3
this is not love rather a big torture, free yourself and look for real love.
Answerer 4
I am sorry to say this but that may be one of the most Beta things I have ever read. You have taken a break from your girlfreind who then slept with your firends ?
Firstly they are not your friends ditch those tards, kick the crap out of them if you can.
Secondly why would you let anyone treat you like that, have you slept with anyone whilst on this bgreak ? If not get away from the computer and get as much *** as you can, make her realise that you too can have sex and that she is not the only one you can have or want.
Thirdly, man the hell up. You want to spend the rest of your life, who has such a low regard for you that she sleeps with your friends ? That is somone you will trust for the rest of your life, and potentially lose half of your life to.
I am sorry if I am being harsh but you are letting yourself being used and humiliated like a fool, and I can’t even call you a man for even allowing yourself to be treated this way.
Answerer 5
I agree with Dylan. She was really disrespectful to you after your break up. I think people’s true colors come through when you see how they handle break ups. You deserve better. But I know it’s hard to to do that when you’re so emotionally involved.