well we were together for three years then we been broken up for 2 years. we recently got back talking and said that we would keep in touch but i see that she is not attracted to me nomore and that hurts. she doesnt text me at all i always text her. i asked her if i could get to know her again she said she guess, and that wasnt looking for a relationship right now and when she is home she always say she is a busy girl. im not much of a partier or drinker but she likes too. Im just wondering what could i do?
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The two of you must have broken up for a reason… Woman are better at remembering negative parts about their relationship, men tend to forget. Men forget about fights easier as well….What you could do is focus on why you are incompatible, and do not forget (but focus) on the bad moments the two of you may have had….
She says she is too busy for you, but has plenty of time to drink and party. She does not want a relationship, probably her way of partying is not compatible with a relationship. Wouldn’t you rather have a decent girl? My advice… don’t put anymore effort into this situation. Even if you do get your ex back, would that really be good for you? And could she ever make you really happy?
Why do you want your ex back? Are you lonesome or is she really the love of your life? Maybe you need to meet some new people. It sounds like she is trying to be nice and not hurt your feelings to me. I know after heartbreak I have become lonesome sometimes and tend to forget the bad things about the relationship. There was a reason you broke up. I find that staying busy, helping others, getting involved in some kind of activity to meet new people had helped me. I think the busier you are the less time you have to dwell on the what could have been. Sometimes for me the best thing is to be the best me I can be. That seems to attract the best people to be around. Confidence in yourself. Spend some time not contacting her and get yourself right. Good luck.
Get a life is what you could do. Shes not interested in being your mate because she hasn’t seen you for ages and since then has made new freinds and is out having a good time so she doesn’t really have time to hang around with her ex. Why can’t you make some friends of your own and have fun. And don’t get done in that she doesn’t find you attractive. Its because she’s met other people and of course she won’t… YOu broke up . its not likely shes gonna fancy her ex is it? Why are you so done in. YOu need to get happy with yourself rather than dwell on the past. HOpe i helped. didnt mean to be so harsh but isnt it obvious!
Source(s): common sense
Move on. She isn’t interested. She said it. She said she does not want a relationship. You have to listen to her words. She said she’s too busy to hang out. That means she doesn’t want to hang out. She doesn’t text you because she doesn’t want to. You’ve been broken up, she moved on and got over it. Now you have to do the same.
if u want to know her again what have to known her for so long
All relationship is for a purpose for a definite time period . Now it is better you align the relationship with current requirement
look at the bright side she proably is into you. She proably just dosent want to get hurt. there are times when i tyoe in my ex number and have to remind myself that i dont have anything to say to him. and quickly erase his number of my screen. jus keep trying to talk to her but eventually u must move on.
Basically? Get over it. She isn’t attracted to you anymore. You gotta move on.
find another bird.