im so worried about my friend. she thinks she leads this normal life but she really doesnt!! and i need her to understand…shes 17 and has been through A LOT, she started going clubbing and stuff at 16 but apparently cambridge night life isnt enough! – so she goes to london by herself all the time to go to clubs where she ends up having one night stands or wondering the streets.
ok so i did go with her one time last week, get the train and followed her energy…she gets us into all these clubs, shes centre of attention EVERYWHERE, she pole dances etc..and i was just pretty terrified tbh. ok then we leave a club and were out on the st. this guy comes over and takes her hand, takes her down a dark alleyway he closes in on her up to this gate and puts his arms around her. she tries to push his away by putting her hands against him but hes too strong. she says no but he doesnt stop. he makes all this sex movement and touches her kisses her neck and i just see her staring emptily into nothing, she doesnt look scared. hes basically having sex with her but with clothes on and wont let her go…i was too scared to do anything.
🙁 then when his phone went off she kicked him and it startled him, she grabbed my arm and we ran off. she sees some other bar open ahead and skips inside as if NOTHING has just happened. it literally did not phase her. she says it happens all the time, no big deal. well i wana no wot u ppl think!???? because personally i would be traumatised if some strong guy did tht to me…it doesnt matter that he didnt get her clothes off, she still said no and he was assaulting her in my opinion.
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Your friend , puts herself in harms way, and if you go with her, the same could happen to you.
When you put yourself into an arena, of booze, sexual excitement, you are going to attract individuals that get off on the stuff, and predators are always on the prowl for easy targets. It’s only a matter of time before your friend gets a full complete sexual assault, and it might even be wanted. so she can complain, it wasn’t her fault.
woah seems like ur friend bit of a party animal! and i think you need talk to her about that night when she got assaulted as you are worried about her and also tell her to calm down a bit i mean she got a whole life ahead of her to do all those things !
She’s got a problem that is greater than the unknown danger of her nightlife. She’s escaping something, trying to hide. It could be her insecurities or another person.
well what does she expect
shes basically leading them on by pole dancing and i bet if shes centre of attention is because she dressed like a **** and is asking for it
i dont feel sorry for girls like that she needs to grow up and start acting like a lady!!!!
blood shes a slag oviusly… dont get yurself involved tell bher to hav a wash and fix the fuk up if she was my friend i wud slap her silly an d tell her if she afrrys on like this i wudnt chat to her anymore kuz shes a dirty girl enit jeesh is dat reli dat complicated to yu????
There is nothing you can do as long as she puts herself in this situation.Don’t go with her you both might get raped or killed.Tell her parents if you wish to save her life.They don’t need to tell her you told.
wow.
you really need to tell her that she should change.
lead her in the right direction.
shes going to have no respect for herself or body soon, and that is not good.
She might think its fun and all but its ruining her future life.
well, you need to call the police, or someone with authority becasue its not right, but if she doesnt ming being ‘touched up’ you need to talk to her becasue its obv bothering you. talk to her, if its serious and she doesnt want it to happen, tell someone. xx
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she should go to the old bill, end of!