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My husband hates me..I’ve done nothing wrong..he’s lying all the time, when I ask questions he gets angry…..?
He’s been secretly talking on FB with an old girl friend, she calles him and sends him texts! But I’m not allowed to be upset, he calles me stupid and a spy, we’ve been married for a long time, I’ve never lied or done anything wrong..he’s on his way home now and I know that he’s going to be angry, I’m the bad person because I question him..so sad today.. 🙁 got no family or friends, would love some advice.. ok..he’s a drunk..gets drunk every night..verbaly abusive not physically (only a couple of times).yes..I started spying on him only after I realized that I’m so navie..he’s been doing this for months and months! And no, I can’t get divorced, I have nothing, no money ..no family and no friends..and no, I’m not feeling sorry for my self..thanks
THANK you for all your advice 🙂 I have a job, we work together 🙂 hahah bad luck right
!! love all your advice, makes me feel good that people care and try to help..any ideas what to do? He’s not a bad guy, he’s bi-polar and drinks too much but every now and then he’s a really nice guy..
thanks
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I’m so sorry this is happening to you. You do not deserve this, do not let him make you feel bad. You have all the reason to be curious about what he is doing, he IS your husband and you both made a commitment to each other during marriage. You deserve better than this. If he keeps being verbally and physically abusive you need to get out of there for your own safety.
I know many situations where the husband was “a good guy” only when he was sober, but once he drank it was a whole different story.
Try to get him to stop drinking, he needs some help. Counseling would also help a lot.
If it gets really bad, there are many women’s organizations that will help other women who are in abusive (verbal or physical) relationships. They are created to help women who do not have a job, money, or any family to reach out to.
Hang in there, I hope things get better for you.
I dont think your husband hates you.. I think he doesnt respect you. if your a stupid and spy what is he .. perfect … no i think he just doesnt have any respect. if he loves you first of all he wouldnt call you any names in the first place and he wouldnt have no need to message any girls ..a man who has a women and still seeks attention for another girl means hes insecure. i wouldnt put up with that if i were you .. a person will only treat you the way you let him , treat you.. so in some way you are allowing him to continue to treat you this way .and dont take that as it being your fault .. i would say … talk to him and if that doesnt work try to seek some professional help where both you can go and maybe see eye2eye. if not i would say leave him… or at least leave for acouple of days and show him you will not put up with that . but keep your head up high sweetie
Have a chat with him, when he gets angry be angry back and threaten him that you will move out ( even though you have no money, you must have some in the bank), you spy on him as much as you like cuz i think hes cheating on u. You shouldnt have to live like this, u can report him to the police if he gets violant and they might be able to send you somewhere.
All you accusers are usually the guilty,deceitful, selfish and culprit’s in all dysfunctional marriages. I have been an expert in this field for more than 28 years. More than not and I am talking 89% of the self proclaimed victims are the initiators..It’s a shame that the real victims are unaware of the truth.
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take advantage of everything you can advantage and leave him and look for new life , fu@k that $hit , yes be the one who’s bad , if he doesn’t care about you , why do you care
now prepare divorse paper.
you both are going to separate now.