were both 19, freshman in college, been dating almost 2 months
i feel like im seeing her real self now..and shes just too moody
also, im just not that attracted to her anymore
and also, shes too much on me, and i never get time with my friends, and when i do she makes me feel bad about it…
the only thing is i feel bad about breaking up with her because she basically worships me (not trying to brag but its true), she gets depressed easily and i dont want her to do somthing crazy, and she always says she has no friends besides me that want to hang out with her
ive never broken up with a girl before, can someone please give me advice
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talk with her in a sincere way. tell her everything you feel about her now. just tell her the truth. but be very careful anyway. cause u just said she’s moody, so she is emotional that she might get hurt easily.
Do what I did… I was in the same situation and I had to make the girl not like me anymore until she broke up with me. Its the only way, otherwise she will still want you. Show her your worst side, be someone she doesn’t want. Its the only way, otherwise you will retain the guilt. Make her break up with you. I know its a crappy situation, but better to let her have her peace with you then to let her suffer. Basically treat her like you could care less about her and will never want her – she’ll get the hint. Women want to be wanted… when she realizes you want nothing from here – she will seek elsewhere and get what she really wants and that’s loved. Prove to her that you will not love her, respect her, or protect her. She won’t want you – TRUST ME!
Source(s): Been there, done that.
Every single question you answer JAMES you’ve got something horrible to say. Ive just read two of your answers now and i think you should keep your shitty opinions to yourself cause you ain’t got something nice to say to no1.
On to the question now i think you have to be cruel to be kind on this one. Its not fair on yourself or her to stay in this relationship, shes probably just saying she’s got no friends to try and make you feel sorry for her so you dont leave her. Make sure you do it properly tho and dont send her a text, that really wouldn’t be nice.
just tell her I tried, I’m not happy in this and would you rather us okay apart or sad and we’ll make eachother sad. It’s better to let go…… when you do breck up if you stay friends you’ll be roped in. it’s one of those you got to cut off or put up with it. you wanna leave gonna ,eave better now than later. or you could be being a pussy cause alot of women are like that.
James, thats not funny. Have a heart. Just break up with her. Say like, “I don’t want to be in a relationship right now” Whatever. Let her go cry about it.
Ok ok,
Get a male hooker and make him hit on her. Then you walk into the middle of her doing it with the hooker.
Now you can have a good excuse to dump her, and she won’t feel that bad. She won’t blame you, only herself.
If that doesn’t work, say that you two are long lost cousins.
You send her a bandaid in the mail with a note that says, “you’ve just been cut.” Brilliant.
You should do it in front of her friends, it’s freaking awesome.
If she worships u.she will probley let u **** her brains out on a daily basis.
if the problem can be fixed..then TRY to fix it. 😐
that hurts. really..
all we need is TIME.