Me and this guy (lets call him Steve) has had an on off relationship for years, and one day before i left to move to New York, we slept together and when i got to New York i found out i was pregnant. I was just starting a new career and i couldn’t have a child, so i aborted it. Now 3 years later im back in London for a few months and me and Steve started talking again (I never talked to him since i left) and i don’t know whether to tell him or not.
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I think that it depends people are wired different if it will make you feel better to tell him then do it, if you see your relationship going somewhere & want to start on the foundation of truth tell him. But if you can cope just fine never telling him & don’t see anything long term maybe hold off at least!
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Unless this is really bothering you and the guilt is to much to bear I wouldn’t say a word to him about it and just let sleeping dogs lie. I see no point in telling him at this point, but if you were to get serious and perhaps get married to him then it would be right to mention it.
Unless he is going to reimburse you for the proceedure, or intends to have sex with you again without a condom, I’m not sure if it will do anything but traumatize him or make him wonder if it’s even true. You chose not to tell him then, so in general, what purpose would it serve if either of the two conditions above aren’t met for you to mention it now ? It’s your call, but that’s what I think. Good luck.
You dont really need to tell him this it is in your past and it was your decision as it was your choice.
If you feel like you want to tell him and come clean then by all means do,
but if you arent sure then he is going to react then dont tell him and just forget about it.
It’s really up to you. You don’t have to tell him but you can if you want. If you don’t plan on having a serious relationship with him, I don’t see why you should tell him.
Unless you intend to resume a full-on relationship with him, I can’t really see the point in it.
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Just tell him
It’s entirely up to you. I hope he’s not a devout Catholic, though.
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