What should i do if i gave my mother money and she refuses to pay me back?

i gave her 50 dollars for bills and 130 hundred to buy me a new laptop, and the 2 hundred for rent am not counting the 250. but i gave her 130 too buy a laptop online because i have no credit card and she never bought it i ask her before if she couldnt buy it to pay me back and she said she would next month, next month comes i dont ask because am not suprised because this is not new to me when i needed the money i ask and she comes up with the i buy food you eat except i gave her money not food and i asked her to pay me back and she knows that and the fact that she didnt even buy the laptop pisses me off. i honestly dont even know if i had to give her 2 but i was working and she said they need to take 20 or 30% from what i made from two months because i was working with out her knowledge because of that reason(i also had another job but she didnt know about that and i spent it before hand) but the money i mad from this job was more than normal and i was saving up just to save up incase anything came along when she found out i quit because she always leeches money off me but how do i convince my mother someone who plays the am god card into rightfully giving me my hard earned money. also i knew that 99.9% chance i wouldnt get my money back but i didnt think she would later refuse to by the laptop she only had to put down 50 more and after giving her all that money i thought it would be ok but she refused so i got f’ed over. but i gave her the money like always do hoping am wrong and always being right, if you can guess eventually i lost all faith in her, but like a fool i still cant stop myself from giving her the chance. i do hate(hatred for me isnt insulting the person its just avoiding them and never trusting them) her for other reasons but i always give her that chance no matter what always and she lets me down every time so am sure she hates(weird love, treats me like ****) me also. am 18 and dont give me that ******* your 18 move out crap just dont answer you dont know my life you dont know what i have to put threw all you have to do is give you opinion as if its easy.
am not working because i dont want to fork over my hard earned money unless i live alone which is my goal i am moving out soon so dont waist you time giving me that stupid answer.

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  • Answerer 1

    your mom gave you life for goodness sake. i would say not any amount of money should get in the way of you two.mothers day is coming up soon. just make that her gift. just by forgiving her. now you know your mother cant be trusted with ur cash. go get a debit card. or a prepaid card at a store. for your online purchases.

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