I’ve been using protection and everything so I don’t know how I got pregnant. But I am. I’ve taken 5 tests. All positive. How do I tell my parents? They are divorced and my mom and be a psycho when she’s mad so I was thinking about staying at my cousins and texting her telling her so she has a few days. What do you think she will do? Will everyone hate me? The father I’ve been with for 2 years and he’s really supportive. I’ve decided I think abortion is wrong and I’m going to keep it. Adoption is not for me either.
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The first thing you have to do is get to a Ob/GYN if you plan on keeping this baby (you may need the rhogam shot depending on your blood type, and there are other tests/exams they need to do when you’re very early pregnant). You should tell your dad first, and then both of you go tell your mother so you have him there in case she freaks out. Take the bf with you, its his kid too and he’s going to have to deal with your psycho mom in the future too since his kid is her grandkid.
No one will hate you. People will get over it by the time your baby is out and smiling at them.
I think you’ve made the right decision to keep your child after all it is a part of you… mom may be upset… dad too butits already done you are prego. lay them out a plan on how you and the father plan to take care of the baby if you don’t already have a job get one… the father too that will show them that you can handle it tell them that you need theyre support make them feel important because they are. the main thing is to know that you have to grow up because another life is going to be dependent on YOU. I think you can do it but tell them soon don’t make them feel like you hid it from them. good luck.
Do not abort! That is one of the worst things you can do! Keep it! Your momma will have to have to accept that you’re pregnant! don’t be afraid. if she knows your boyfriend is supportive then that is stress off her shoulders! no one will hate you! then again you won’t be able to hide your tummy for long! remember that protection is not always 1% effective! but think of the pros and cons! mom might be mad (physco) but will learn to love your baby! & YOU’RE GOING TO BE A MOM 😀
#congrats! (:
Wow.. Sounds like your life is ****** now.