Why are my friends committing suicide?

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It’s always been me an my friends from day one of primary school, we never left each other best friends, to his day I never saw myself losing any of them but recently things have been getting so bad. Everyone suffering from constant family issues depression and stuff like we’ve had it pretty bad! About 3 weeks ago now the strongest member of our little clique hung herself with no intension of telling any of us she was going to do it so now there’s just a ache between all of us shits been getting real bad over the past few weeks coming to terms that I’ve lost of of my best friends, now it seems it’s getting worse. Since the day I’ve noticed a change in all of us but the one that really had it hard he most out of us was still Soldiering on, but today she told one of us in the group that she can’t take it no more I fear for the worst of her but there’s nothing I can do she’s so far away she’s not answering to any of our messages and she doesn’t live with her mom or dad it’s so ****** right now. I don’t know we’re to turn my head my mum&dad are telling me to drop these people there not gonna do me any good but it’s so ****** I don’t know what to do, I’m not contemplating Suicide never in my life but. I need guidance they don’t understand I just don’t know what to do/:

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  • first thing you call an emergancy suicide line and tell them you believe your friend is suicidal, they will give you the best guidence on how to adress this problem. they are more experts in this then any of us, so they can also help YOU how to deal with the loss of the other friend.

    but most important thing: find someone to talk to, be open about it. if you keep this inside it will only grow bigger, so talk to someone you can trust, and advice (even push) your friends to do the same!!!

  • First of all? Calm down; stressing yourself out even more than necessary about this isn’t going to help anything. Try and get a ride over to her house and talk to her calmly about things, try to demotivate her if she has any suicidal intentions. Ask your parents if she could come and stay with you at your house for a little while, or get one of your other friends to let her stay with them for a while; to keep an eye on her. If none of that works? Talk to a school Councillor, or call the suicide prevention number (You’d have to look that up for the area you live in).

  • They dont like life?

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