There’s this girl that has been ignoring my messages. We used to be close and best friends before, she actually had a crush on me and stuff and she would go around chasing after me. For some reason I didn’t like her but now I do.
Before I was a totally tool/jerk to her though she would still chase after me. We used to talk on Facebook a lot though, but that’s when things began to turn around.
There’s this guy that liked her, and I used to tease her about him and harass her about it, etc. She didn’t like him at all. (Yes I know, pathetic of me to do…I am full of regret.)
Any how, we ended up splitting apart from each other due to my stupidity. (This happened about 3-4 years ago.) Right now she’s really socially awkward, she doesn’t talk to any guys whatsoever, nor does she even talk to her close friends! Most of her friends don’t even know what the problem is with her, they feel like she’s isolated in her own little world. Most of her friends didn’t even know she had a dog until a year later. The only people she even talks to now is just her one best friend which is another shy girl and her mom…That’s about it. Her friends are pissed off at her because they feel too distant.
Anyway, I messaged her a long apology yesterday on facebook (about 4 paragraphs long) explaining how sorry I was, etc. I put a lot of effort into it. I even offered to do anything as she wishes or wants in order to make up for it.
This morning she read my message and it was seen around 7:36 AM. She didn’t even reply.
I look at it now (2:38 PM) and she marked it as unread…
What’s her problem? How can I get her back???
Update:
I’m actually concerned too…
I’m not sure what’s running through her mind. I was pretty much the only guy she has ever talked 2…
Update 2:
Her friends also call her rude and stuff.
I was talking to one of her other close friends but she doesn’t really give her much information. She’s pretty much isolated. She told me people hate her and think she’s mean, etc. I find her all right and fine, we used to goof off and joke around with each other and such…All I know is that she’s changed a lot, especially for the worse.
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It seems that she has been really hurt not only by you but her friends too it could be something that has been said about her and she has found out and so has distanced herself from you all, or perhaps this new friend though seems shy could be possessive or holds something over her. I think the best thing for you to do is leave her alone and get on with your own life you never know perhaps one day she will contact you. always remember that what ever has happened the truth always comes out in end
Maybe she didn’t have the time to reply or fully read the message, so she marked it unread so that you wouldn’t think that she was ignoring you. When I have someone message me and I don’t want to reply I don’t change it to unread.. But there could be something deeper going on with her.. I’m somewhat concerned and I don’t even know her since she cut herself off from almost everyone that she was once friends with. if she doesn’t reply in a day or two I would message her again and ask if everything is going ok with her. andddd let me know if she says anything back!
don’t. Move on. I’m sorry, but I’ve been in a similar situation from the other side, and if she is ignoring you she’s not interested. Especially if its been years like you said.
Source(s): personal experience