Okay so the other my bf and i were bowling and he had gotten a txt & as i looked down at the lit up phone he took it. I told him ” im watching you” and after that he was like KISSING MY BUTT. I knew something was up so I told him be careful because one day im gonna go through your phone. So two days ago while he was in the shower I grabbed his phone. WELL turns out he was texting.. sooo many other girls, girls I have never heard of before…so of course when he got out i told him I had seen one of the girls convo was for 277 messages!!! And right before I had gotten to his house he txt this girl “hey imma shower so ill txt you later :)” when really its cause I was going over that is so shady! Well anyway when i first confronted him he turned pale I was so upset i just said i couldnt believe he would do that to me. He didnt come after me or txt me maybe cause he had work. After he had gotten out he had tweeted “pisses the **** outta me that my gf went through my phone” then another “who does that” I feel so disrespected that he would put our business on twitter. Of course I was upset especially when hes trying to turn the tables on me to make me look crazy! I hand’t talked to him for like a day and he tweeted again “I only play this waiting game for a couple days and THATS IT. Honestly hes childish. Im going to be the adult and talk to him about it Im just not sure what to do cut ties or work through it.
By the way he’s 21 and im 20 I think we are too old for this bs. Help from the outside would be nice…
THANKS!
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IF he only waits a couple days, then just let him wait period! With ALL the convos he’s having with ALL these other girls, do you really just want to be part of his “crowd”!!! He’s not for you, that’s for sure. Next it’s going to lead to a trust issue between the two of you. You KNOW he’s NOT about to stop texting other girls! Accept this as fact & you move on & go forward with your life. You CAN do far better than him. I honestly wouldn’t bother contacting him again! IF he does reach you, calmly let him know you’re going forward with your life, you’re not getting involved with anyone who has so many others in his life already. Let him go!!! Leave him in your past & just keep going forward…yes you can!!! Do it…best to you…:)
The waiting game for only a couple days? If he cared as much as you wanted first off he wouldn’t have done that in the beginning and he would have dropped it all if it did happen and he did care. And if you go back to him he will just see it as oh she was just pissed but she’s fine now and continue his shenanigans behind your back. I watched my dad do this so many times to women so please just leave him. Oh but if you believe in karma then let them meet or at least find out about each other 🙂 it’ll make his whole ship of lies sink because he doesnt deserve any of them
These are some serious warning signs. Especially when he pretended he was showering instead of telling the other girl you were coming over. He obviously wants her to feel like he’s single.
It sounds like this guy will give you nothing but grief. DUMP HIM!
Personally, I’d lose him. You’re only 20 and it’s certainly not worth feeling disrespected, lied to, and being made to look crazy. I say only 20 because there are a lot of years to go in your life, and you probably don’t want to spend them with this guy. Have fun, go out, and find someone who won’t lie to you and act like a baby when he gets caught.
just what do you expect from a 21 yr old immature guy? he has basically shown you by turning the tables so he can justify himself how he sees this. he doesn’t feel he is doing wrong. your wasting your time this guy is way too immature to carry on a committed relationship.
this gonna sound strange but get him tested for an std then if he is o.k.(and you) you have nothing to complain about… heal yourself if a scar is there. love yourself then give him time to change. nothing good happens overnight and we all need somebody to hold. dont nag. give him some love and attention then he will not have time for other girls.
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Mature people respect boundaries, like oh, say, for example, a person’s phone. If you don’t trust him, leave.
Dump him and get an explanation from him 2. he should still be kissing your *** why’s he waiting? not your fault.
DUMP HIM. Plain and simple. He’s too immature for a relationship.
Dump him, you are not married, go find a guy who will love and respect you.
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