Is he going to cheat on me again?

I picked out the words “verbal abuse”. I’ve lived with EVERY type of abuse & unless he’s gotten Professional help with his anger/abuse, he will NEVER ever change. He’s just reverting back to the SAME person you once got rid of. Abusers are controllers with low self esteems who also are very controlling people. Trust me, I too well know as I lived with it ALL for far too many yrs. He is NOT going to change into the person you want him to be – no way!!! You must accept him for who he is, the SAME one you couldn’t take before & make up your mind if you want to go thru this ALLL again, OR do you want to put him in your past, leave him there & start over again. The choice is all yours. I’d get rid of him & start a new life all over again. Get yourself out & meet the person you belong with. He’s out there waiting to meet you at just the rite moment. You CAN & WILL find happiness IF you let go of this total controller! Until you do, you’re going to live an unhappy life such as you did before. I’m saying all this for your own good, it’s ALL the TRUTH as I’ve lived with it! Don’t waste your precious life away on/with him. Free yourself so you CAN find the happiness you deserve…I DO wish you the best, honey…:)

Once a cheater always a cheater is a cliche don’t listen to people who say that. I believe that everyone deserves a second chance and some people can truly change. The key word here is some. When you leave someone that you have been with for a long time of course they are going to be upset and miss you. Most people don’t realize what they had until its gone. When he started sending you the videos and stuff I think he was starting to realize what he had. I think you may have took him back too soon. I hate to say it but a lot of times when you take someone back they act all sweet and nice at first but then they remember why they weren’t happy in the relationship. That is what he is remembering right now so he is going right back to his old ways because he thinks he has you now and you aren’t going anywhere. I was in a relationship with someone who mentally abused me for a long time. I took him back several times and he did the exact same thing act nice for a few weeks or even months then he was right back doing the same crap. I got to the point where I was getting very low self esteem and I knew I had to get out of it. I just got the courage up to tell him to pack his stuff and go. A few months later he begged me back and I felt sorry for him for a minute. I just started remembering how he treated me and I told him no and I was happy being on my own. I am so glad I did because a few weeks later I met the love of my life someone who treats me the way a women should be treated. We have been together for almost 6 years now. So get out of it while you can nobody deserves to be treated that way day after day. You are not someones doormat you are worth way more than that piece of s*it. This time don’t answer his phone calls and avoid him. Give him time and space to get over you and the videos and phone calls will stop. Don’t ever sacrifice your happiness for somebody else’s it is just not worth it.

the conventional cheater, cheat again. it truly isn’t any longer purely my personal observations as a therapist. in accordance to at least one study carried out contained in the late ninety’s a minimum of 60% of fellows may have an extramarital affair faster or later and of those seventy 5% may have a 2d one. this does no longer recommend that his affair might want to reason her to break up. If she pick to maintain her marriage, both of them pick to make certain why the affair exceeded off. Agreeing on the reason being a serious first step in the route of reestablishing the believe. in the adventure that they are unable to succeed in this contract, then opportunities are both he will have a 2d affair or they’ll damage up. yet this contract on the reason is only a first step. each of them then desires to pick in the adventure that they pick to spend the emotional capital to both fix what’s incorrect or damage up. this is always good in the adventure that they can make this selection jointly yet typically it isn’t accessible. a reliable marriage counselor can help them make those judgements.

i am sorry to say he is not vested in the relationship. he seems to be dealing with his own issues and you are not that important. he will convince you that you are just to feel accepted again. maybe he does love you but at this time in his life other issues inside of him will not allow a good healthy devoted bond with YOU. move on and live life as you deserve. maybe in time he will heal or grow into what you need. also i am not insulting you but if you want to be with him like this there may also be something wrong inside of you too. good luck.

Source(s): 10 years of therapy on this matter and 3 marriages that failed. i am 45 years old.

He is a manipulating S.O.B. Sending you videos of himself crying???? Ugh! Please! That is sickening. He knows EXACTLY what he’s doing to you and how it is going to make you feel and he chooses to continue to do it over and over and over, anyway. Kick him to the curb.

Now listen sweet one, there is saying and it goes like this:

“No man is worth your tears, and the one who is won’t make you cry.”

Write that down and tape it to your bedroom or bathroom mirror. Read it everyday and know that it is true. This too shall pass but you’ll never get to meet Mr. Right until you get rid of Mr. Wrong. Bless your sweet heart and good luck to you.

Yes, hes going to cheat again if hes not already. Im not sure why he would make you feel bad for “hurting him”, hes the one thats cheating. You deserve to be treated better, time to kick him to the curb.

How can you expect others to repect you if you can’t respect yourself? As you said so yourself “He has cheated on me a lot”. I’m just surprised you let him get away with murder, so to speak. It’s one thing to forgive and forget but it’s another thing allow someone to treat others badly over and over and over again.

i spend 5 years with a guy that stared to cheat on me and i thought one day he was going to change he kept cheating on me till one day i end up in a hospital with 7 stiches on my lip so if a man cheat on you once dont give him another chanse because once a cheater always a cheater!!

Lol are u that stupid or naive…ONCE HE CHEATS ONCE…he will do it again and it becomes easier..I swear yall married worried swear yall have it sooo good but yall men play yall like crazy behind closed doors..they’re on their best behavior when your around..but when it not they up another chick ***..most men are lieing cheating dogs…cheat back or leave…get some self esteem..everytime he cheats he puts u life at risk…is that love?….

Source(s): Marriage is a joke..never will I be married

I think both of you guys are losers….. I mean, you started off with “he has cheated on me a lot”…. hint hint….. I think the key word here is “he has cheated on me a lot” which means that you have taken him back “a lot”….. so why worry about him cheating on you again…. you should be used to it by now, no big deal.