My boyfriend cums within 2 minutes when we have sex. Does this mean he is not attracted to me?

I’ve read online that lack of attraction to sexual partner is a cause of premature ejaculation, but my boyfriend says he cums quickly because he is TOO attracted to me. I’m confused. Help!

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  • He does not know how to f.u.c.k. He is novice.

    Don’t allow him to insert his penis in your vagina right at the start.

    Make foreplay at least for 80-90 minutes.

    Lick, suck, fondle, kiss, each other at every part of the body specially the sexually sensitive organs.. Take 69 position and lick and suck each other’s genitals. Keep on changing positions. Foreplay will make both of you sufficiently aroused.

    When you see his penis has become rock hard and your vagina fully wet, then ask him to insert his penis inside your vagina.

    Let him thrust in as much as you can take.

    Make slow strokes taking out and taking in the penis fully upto the root.

    Increase speed slowly.

    Stop when he feels like cuming.

    After a little while start again. You take equal part in f.uc.k.ing. Move your hips forward and backward along with him.

    Come on top of him and f.u.c.k from above. This way you can prolong your sex time.

    When you yourself feel like cuming, increase speed.

    This way you can make one session prolong upto 80-90 minutes and you will be fully satisfied.

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  • He is right, if he is not attracted to you or finds you ugly then he will not be able to get it UP … he is very much attracted to YOU and you are surely very HOT so he is all worked just by kissing and fondling you and is halfway there even before he is inside. You should distract his mind from this, next time the moment he is inside stop him and start talking to him about something totally different and do not allow him to move for a minute or 2, then ask him to make occasional movements and stop BUT keep on talking about anything other than sex. Share a couple of jokes, talk about your friends, some movies, make a plan for dinner or something just keep his mind occupied and he in a couple of weeks he will be able to hold it longer

  • He obviously likes what you have. Premature ejaculation is not rare but sometimes it takes a little practice on the part of both parties to overcome it. If he warns you when it’s about to happen, both of you should freeze, don’t move a muscle until the feeling passes. With time he will learn to hold it and love it as long as it takes for you to get there too.

    Source(s): 47 years of perfect sex.

  • Premature ejaculation has nothing to do with you. Look it up on the internet. Usually it is caused my years of cumming quickly during masturbation. There are a number of ways to treat it that are very successful. Look it up and have this man take responsible for improving your pleasure. A man that does not address this is a selfish lover.

  • If he wasn’t attracted to you, he would have trouble getting an erection let alone cumming.

    You two need to discuss this and find a solution, if you don’t feel comfortable talking to him about this then you really should not be sleeping together.

    There are ways in which he can delay his ejaculation. Such as slowing down when he feels it build, or you can buy a ring to compress the bass of his penis.

    Best wishes.

  • guys get nervous! Of course, I’m a girl, but i can only imagine what it must be like for a guy to try to hold back. If he says he is too attracted, he’s probably right! he wouldn’t be as erect if he wasn’t attracted. He needs to learn self control. It can be done, just have patience, maybe see a doctor?

  • It happens in the beginning. Have a nice foreplay. Don’t be too urgent to get in. Tell him to make his mind a little diverted before ejaculation.

    There is another way also. It can be tried after a little expertise. Change the positions. You may refer Wikipedia.

  • this is quite funny. Some men suffer from pre-mature ejaculation. He can learn to control it through techniques along with your help if you a willing. i hope your boyfriend doesn’t know you are posting this because this is embarrassing to a guy.

  • Ask yourself, does your question even make sense? If he wasn’t attracted to you, he wouldn’t *** at all because there would be no excitement for him.

    Source(s): common sense

  • You must check out Jack Grave’s “Ejaculation Guru” tutorial on how to stop premature ejaculation, check out his video here: http://www.ejaculationguru.tv/

    It explains how to end premature ejaculation for good. It’s basically a blueprint on how to develop natural control over your ejaculation. It actually reprograms your ejaculatory reflex so that you last longer without even trying.

    It involves a combination of techniques, learning knowledge, and following a specific approach that attacks premature ejaculation from all three angles; the physical, mental, and hormonal. I was able to cure my premature ejaculation problem in only 2 weeks and I never had a problem again.

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