My boyfriend is 19 and i am only 14. Is that wrong?

we are engaged and thinking about starting a family.

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  • OK, A 14 yr old and a 19yr old being enganged is clearly illegal!..

    If he gets caught with you he can get sent to jail becuase even going out with you is a crime at your age! you are planning on ruining his life?

    please grow up a little! and act mature because you gotta think about it! do you wanna risk his life with or without you! just for a little fun!…

    Im 15 and my boyfriend is 21! im 16 in december… my parents know about him and everything.. so i know whats going through your head.. but he cant be with you, until your over 16.. its that simple!

  • No its not wrong at all !

    Age is only a number, it doesnt matter whether youre 14 and 22, age gap doesnt matter one bit. I am a 15 year old girl who used to go out with a 19 year old boy, and nobody made any nasty comments about me or to me saying “Oh your boyfriend’s a paedo, your far too young to be going out with a 19 year old” whereas, these days, people at the ages of 65 and 17 get together and marry and have a family.

    If people think that this is wrong, then they are obviously thick and dont have a brain tbh. You stick to with your gut insticts and if you two are happy together, then no one has anything to complain about, do they??

    Hopee I helped, and good luck for the future 🙂 xx

    P.S Ignore all the kn***eads out there who say its wrong and perving, because theyre the ones who are wrong !!

  • Going out? Not so wrong

    Engaged? Wrong

    Having a Family? VERY VERY Wrong.

    You’re only 14, you simply haven’t developed enough to consider having a family, if you love him, and he loves you, then agree to wait until you are 20 and he is 25. THEN you can start to think about marriage and family.

  • At 14 your too young to be around a guy who is 19. He should go to jail for even being with you. Please tell the authorities (police) right away. Its very wrong of this guy to be taking advantage of you.

    www.teenhopeline.com is a web site that may be of some help to you.

  • where are your parents? what do they have to say? first of all it ILLEGAL! Do you know what could happen to him if someone calls the cops?! He will get arrested and charged with statutory rape and possibly have to register as a SEX OFFENDER!! Serious stuff. He won’t be able to find a job and won’t be able to support you. Don’t ruin his life! All it takes is for any family member, teacher or anybody to find out and pick up the phone to call the police and it’s over!

    http://www.cga.ct.gov/23/olrdata/jud/rpt/23-R-…

    This link shows the different statutory rape laws by state.

  • Kid, I’m sorry, but you’re just too little to have your own family.

    But it doesn’t mean that you and your boyfriend have to break up. You may go out all you want now and get married after you’re turned 18

  • It is wrong . You are still teen and even not adult. my view is that you wait for another 5 years to start your family.

  • nothing wrong with your ages but think twice before to late to know.

    this is very tempting age due to emotions and tender age always

    make not correct decisions.

    just wait and make sure you old enough to make right decision.

  • hell yes its wrong, ur boyfriend needs a kick up the rear end, ur too young dont do it, tell him to find someone his own age.

  • its really wrong getting engaged and all

    please dont think such

    please first struggle for your own existence in world you cant take long your love till you are feeded and aken care

    wait for sometime

    have some identity some one’s daughter and someone’s son is not identity you need to be something first

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