My good friend offered to be my surrogate! What do i do now? Where do i start?

I have done research and know the basics of surrogacy, but i am, a bit overwhelmed with what to do first, and the whole process. What are the legal requirements? Does my surrogate have to have a psychological evaluation if we are going the independent route? I have SO many questions.

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  • CONGRATS!

    I’m very happy for you. Your friend must care about you alot 🙂

    The problem is that surrogacy laws vary state to state, so what you need to do will change based on where you live.

    http://www.allaboutsurrogacy.com/surrogacylaws.htm

    This page can tell you about the laws for your state.

    Another good way to get started is to pick a doctor!! An OB/Gyn or nurse/midwife (or w/e) that both you and your friend are comfortable with will be a key part of your lives for the next several months. They will also be able to answer all your questions about the process in your area 🙂

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  • Hi Sarah!

    That’s great, you have a very kind and caring friend!

    As Jamie mentioned, make sure you educate yourself about the law in your state. In some states, surrogacy is illegal, so you have to be careful. You should find a lawyer who is an expert in surrogacy. While it may seem unnecessary when you’re working with a close friend, it’s important for you to have a surrogacy contract.

    My colleague Scott Buckley wrote a post about why you need a surrogacy contract, which you can find here if you’re interested: http://blog.circlesurrogacy.com/2013/05/surrogacy-…

    Even though you’re going doing an independent surrogacy, you’ll also want to make sure you do a psycho-social screening and, more importantly, a medical screening. Your IVF clinic will handle that.

    If you haven’t checked out SurroMomsOnline.com, you should. There are a lot of great resources available there for surrogates and intended parents. And there are plenty of people who are going the independent route who can share some more advice.

    Good luck!

    Source(s): http://blog.circlesurrogacy.com/2013/05/surrogacy-…
    http://www.surromomsonline.com/00

  • circulate discover a criminal expert as quickly as you are able to. additionally, you may communicate on your chum approximately what she expects in terms of a dating with the youngster after beginning. Will the youngster understand that she carried him/her? except she has been a surrogate till now, she would be able to need some severe counseling so she is waiting to handle her thoughts for the youngster after beginning. noticeably if she is the organic and organic mom.

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