prefer to live alone and refuse to stay with us. we had good life together for 15 years until the OW showed up in his life , I could not accept to be his wife while he is with this mistress,( I have to say that we had great sex and he never complained about it) well forced for divorce but still he always wanted me, but not responsibility of his own child still he comes to my door and asking for making love to me but it is very difficult for me to continue like this and I promised my son I will never get a boyfriend because he even recently cried and told me that he is missing his father and he does not want to have any step father but on the other hand he knows that is not fair to me to stay alone. now he is 12 years old and he knows why I had to let his father go. I hate myself to see my son sad but how could I make his father to be more present in his life, I know his father is finished wit the Ow but they have finished their relationship many times before and I can not believe him any more, well he is not asking to come back either and live with us , It is just so difficult to understand how he can live all alone in a small apartment, eat frozen food , he does not work and at the age of 55 he is living like a teen age. Me and our son we are very lonely and our son is just dying to spend quality time with his father.Is there any way to get into this man’s head and make to see how he is damaging his son’s feeling and that could stay life time in his son’s head that his father was not there for him. often he comes to my house when our son is at school , just to see me and may be one of these days I will accept to have sex with him again. Please somebody tell me what is wrong with this kind of men, why he does not appreciate what he has, beautiful , healthy , smart son , I love every minute that I spent with my boy, but his father? is it possible that he is suffering from special mental sickness or just he is a very selfish man.
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mid life crisis all the way!
let him go. he can’t get what he wants and just continue to hurt his family. as for his son…has your boy tried calling him and ASKING him to spend the day or night with him?? i would try that.
but as for YOU, you need to keep your distance because you’re only confusing you son and your self even more by allowing him to come over whenever he WANTS and asking for sex especially. i know it’s hard but now…you have to be the strong one for your kid. you’re what he has. don’t give in to this man. he’s no man really. just a pathetic person now. don’t confuse your son even more by letting this guy stay close to you.
its takes time