I am going out with this lady, who has not been able to let go of her ex, he still very fresh in her heart, should I just stay in this relationship and give her sometime until she can let go or should I just run..
Update:
I being trying to be her friend the best I can, she starting to tell me a lot more about him, she said cause she fells comfortable talking to me about it and I am the only one she has that understands. I like her and I do love her, but cause of this there are some doubts in my mind if I am just a filler guy….
Update 2:
She does not have any kids with him, they were not married, it was less than a year relationship, but she thought he was so great (not talking sexually)
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I would recommend only friendship, nothing more.
It depends on how you feel about playing second fiddle at the moment. If the circumstances of the break-up with her ex were amicable then she’ll get over him in time. If on the other hand he was a ratbag and treated her badly then it will take much longer to heal and will have a direct bearing on your relationship with her. You may also be a rebound fling at the moment, sad to say.
You need to work out whether it’s something you can deal with. If it’s likely to be something you throw in her face during an argument (“you’ve always wanted xxx instead of me!!) then it’s best to leave her some time to settle and sort her life out.
I wouldn’t suggest you run, per se, but you should give her a great deal of space until she fully gets over this other guy. Otherwise, you’re just going to wind up being an emotional tampon and stuck in the friend zone forever. Give her the chance to miss you a little bit.
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You might as well stick around and hit it a few more times. You’re not trying to marry her are you? If she’s still stuck on her ex, just keep nailing her. But don’t expect her to be much more than a sex buddy.
Personally I’m not sure why she is even dating if she still has attachments. That is a very unfair thing to ask of you, however, if you truly feel a connection than stick it out, just go slow.
Leave her. U are being used to get over her ex. It’s not worth the stay because there isn’t anything you can do.
It depends on how much you like her. I wouldn’t get too caught up into her b/c she could get back with her ex. and if she has kids by him she will still have contact with him. Take it slow if you want to continue.
give her some time, plus youre the only one who can really make her let go of him!
SO TREAT HER LIKE A PRINCESS, and shell fall for only you!
Give her some time if you really care for her. Just be her friend in the meantime.
Your first sentence says it all. Trust your instinct: “who has not been able to let go of her ex”. Enought said.
RUN!
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