After experiencing for 14months, bitter life, from a not loving, phsically abusive and verbally abusive, with a no attention to me person, I’m getting separated! I’m happy about it, that I get relieved from such a life!
Friends, wish me luck for future and give me some tips to choose a partner for the rest of my life! Thanks a lot!!
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Sorry to hear you are so unhappy. Was this an arranged marriage or what? You really need help but more so your husband seems like a sick person. Have to tried involving some elders to see what’s actually going on? IF you love this man, then maybe, just maybe you like to help him by some counseling. I know you are in emotional and physical pain, but sometimes, such people behave because they have had abusive childhood themselves and sometimes its the poor state of mind. You both need help. Some people just don’t know how to express their love – they think power is love. Such people need major help. You take care of yourself – get help from the law if you have to because you can be badly injured and he may not realise this when he physically abuses you. Since you do not say much about your married life in details, I can only wish you all the best and my prayers are with you. God help both of you at a time like this.
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advice: don’t just jump into the next relationship, observe the man you with , ‘test him” – and i don’t mean it in a bad way..just see how he is with you, take in all those little warning signs you may see or hear…at early stage of any relationship us women seem to be blind to those, we only want to see the good side as we are mesmerised by the guy and we completely ignore the major things that later cause unhappiness in a relationship. don’t be bitter though, not all men are the same
good luck and well done to you.
You have stood up for yourself and officialy made yourself a stronger woman :)))
Yay! I’m so glad you did not stay in this kind of relationship! I wanna congratulate you! First of all before you get into a relationship try and know the person in and out, know what they’re all about, what they do, their past etc etc… Don’t just give in to anyone! I wish you the best luck in your future!
I like the word “choose” a partner, because that is exactly what it is, a choice and you need to work on yourself to make sure your self esteem is high and also your self confidence. Do not settle for anything but what your dream man is. He is out there, take it from me. I thought all men were the same, best ones taken and better one had bad habits. Not true.
You’re already thinking about the next partner? My advice is to take a LONG break from relationships to work on yourself. Otherwise you make the same mistake again. People get stuck in patterns where they keep choosing the same type of person unless they take the time to learn from their mistakes and grow. Good luck!
CHEERS. Be careful to not fall too quickly too fast. You may be used to being in a relationship- and may find it hard to just be courted/or date. Do read “He’s just not that into you”- before you hop back on that horse.
I would suggest spending time with friends, making new ones as you may feel a little lonely in between feeling empowered. Get out of the house- join a gym or a class… Really re discover your self- you need to be whole to be ready for a new relationship- in time.
As far as when you do meet the next Mr. Right…or Mr. right now… 2 things:
When people show you who they really are- BELIVE THEM
&
Potential is an imaginary characteristic we seek to see in people we care about- but it is just that……… Imaginary!
Good luck- Be safe!
Who chose the idiot that you are getting rid of?
Learn from your own mistakes, and the mistakes of others.
Do not do the same thing, and expect a better result. That is the definition of insanity.
Good for you! Why don’t you throw a “Happy Divorce” party when its over, for those who know what you went through. I say take a break from men for a while and get to know yourself.
Good luck 😉
Congratulation, I am sooo happy for you! I been thru the same way, next time if you start dating study well the person before you get involved with him!
Congratulations 🙂 Look for someone with a good personality, ambition, character and intelligence who treats you right.
The person you must trust is the person you see in the mirror ask that person whether they want another
Congratulations & good luck for future.
Good luck Girl! You’ll be okay
Been there too. After I left, I’ve never been happier. Good luck! Hope you find your happiness! 🙂
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